Learn how to keep clutter away for good with these practical tips and healthy decluttering habits. Simple ideas to help you live a happier, decluttered life.
How to Keep the Clutter Away
Have you been working hard at decluttering? Now that you have a more decluttered space, the trick is obviously to keep it that way! Likely there were some bad habits that got you into your mess in the first place, so unless these are addressed, that clutter has a good chance of returning. In order to keep the clutter out once and for all, you need to have a better understanding of why it got there in the first place.
“The less you own, the less that owns you.”
Spend a little time thinking about why you had so many things to begin with {you may find THIS POST helpful for a few ideas}. Do you have difficulty letting go? Do you binge shop or regularly buy things that you don’t need or have a space for? Maybe you made the decision to downsize your home but never really downsized your stuff. Whatever the reason {or reasons!} may be, just identifying what they are and being more conscious of them is half the battle.
Positive Decluttering Habits
The other half is replacing those bad habits with good habits. Here are a few decluttering habits that I have tried to adopt as much as possible…
Make sure everything has a place.
You know the saying “Everything has a place and everything in its place”? Do it!! Everything in your home should have a specific spot that it belongs {and stays!}. Label containers and baskets to help other family members remember where things go, and get everyone in the habit of putting their own items away where they belong {this can definitely take some time but stick with it!}. If you do not have a space for your item, it either needs to go, or you need to find something else that can go to make room for it. With the exception of seasonal items, try to make everything as accessible as possible. This will increase your chances of actually using the item and will also make it quicker and easier for everyone to put away. The simpler it is to do, the more compliance you will have!
Don’t get sucked in by sales.
If you are one of those people that just can’t pass up a good deal, think very carefully before you make that purchase! Remember that every item that you bring into your home has a price – a price of time to clean and maintain it, a price of space, and a price of energy. No matter how good the deal is {even if it is free!}, if you don’t need it or and will not use it, leave it for someone else who will. Be especially wary of those “Buy 2 get one free” deals or stores that will sell at a slightly discounted price if you buy multiple items. If you do not need it, do not buy it!
Do not buy things that you can’t return.
This one might not apply to everyone and, of course, there are always a few exceptions, but for me, I need to see things in my house before I know if they are going to work. I probably end up taking back at least a quarter of everything that I buy because it either doesn’t work in the space like I had envisioned or I decide that I really don’t need it. Clothing that looked fabulous in the store doesn’t look quite as good when I get it home or doesn’t really go with anything else in my closet. Remember that you truly want to love everything that you keep! That “great deal” on a clearance item that you can’t return may not end up being such a great deal after all if you never end up using it.
Do not buy things for your “future” self.
Have you ever bought something because you believed that you would need it in the future? I used to be bad at doing this, and at least half the time I never ended up using the item. Buy items as you need them instead of predicting what you will be doing/wanting/needing at some future time. Sure a small little stockpile of food or basic items like toilet paper or paper towels is fine every now and then, but don’t go overboard here. While you may believe that you are going to need that yoga mat next year when your child is finally off to Kindergarten, it might just not happen!
Try to keep at least 20% free space in your cupboards, drawers, and other storage units.
First you need to recognize that your home has a finite amount of space. You can only pack your cupboards so full or stuff so much into your closets. If a space is filled to it’s maximum capacity, it can be more difficult to keep it organized and see everything that is in there. Over time, items don’t get put back in the right spot, things get messy, and you can’t find what you are looking for. Try to always keep at least a little free space to give yourself a little freedom of movement to shuffle items around or to accommodate other items that you may need to add to that space.
Do not go crazy on the organization products.
Yes, you definitely need some areas for storage in your home, but don’t head down to The Container Store and buy every bin and basket in sight. If you keep adding more storage, I guarantee you that the space will eventually fill up. I always think of the quote from Field of Dreams – “If you build it, they will come” – and think that this totally applies to clutter as well. Before you add additional storage, declutter as much as possible first, live with the space for a couple of weeks, and then decide what you really need to make it a more organized and functional space.
Follow the “One thing in, one thing out” rule.
Again this doesn’t always work out, but basically when you get something new, ask yourself if it is replacing something that you now no longer need or will use. I find that this works especially well with clothing items, kids toys, and other small household items. For example, if you buy a new pair of boots, are they replacing a worn out pair that you can no longer wear {that you can now toss out or donate} or did you just not have any boots to start with? On the other hand, if you already have three pairs of beautiful boots that you don’t want to get rid of in exchange for the new ones, maybe you don’t really need those boots after all!
Have a permanent donation box.
I keep one large donation box in the garage as well as a few smaller boxes in each of our bedroom closets so that I can put items in immediately when I determine that I no longer need or want them. This helps to keep me from “second guessing” if I should really be getting rid of it and keeps the space from getting overwhelmed with items that I am no longer using. Once the box starts to get full, I make a quick trip down to the Salvation Army. Doing small amounts of decluttering as you go is so much simpler!
Don’t Give Up!
Decluttering is not a one-time project. It’s an ongoing process. Naturally, we will still continue to accumulate stuff throughout the years. There will also be items that you loved at one point of your life, that you may someday outgrow or no longer use. Continue to practice the tips above and you will learn to find that balance between what you are adding to your home and what you are able to get rid of.
Remember – clutter does not serve us well. You want to be able to see your favorite items, find what you are looking for, and use what you have. If you have done a good job with the initial decluttering process and are deliberate about what you are bringing into your home, maintaining a decluttered home does not have to be an overwhelming or difficult process. Eventually, it will just be a regular habit that you follow.
Join the Household Organization Diet
For those of you that are just starting on your decluttering process, join me in The Household Organization Diet. It’s a systematic plan to declutter, deep clean, and organize every room in your home. If you’d like to join in, START HERE and download the free printables! You may also find these posts helpful…
How to Keep Your Counters Clutter-Free
How to Declutter and Organize Any Space
Havok says
The 20% free/extra space rule makes perfect sense. Of course, it’s more fun to fill a box or shelf than to leave it empty, but empty space means your eyes have room to rest! It may sound silly, but even an over-full fridge is overwhelming for me. I much prefer being able to see everything at a quick glance, and know what I may need from the store or what ingredients I have to be able to cook what. Somehow, reading this post reminded me of that (and made me realize that, duh, that should be the case for every place around my home – not just the fridge!).
Jenn Lifford says
I love your phrase “give your eyes a rest”! That’s what I was thinking when I was writing it but couldn’t figure out how to write that!
carol says
I can’t stand my cluttered house. It’s gotten so out of hand and it’s only me and my husband. From the garage to the basement to the bedrooms. It’s all cluttered. It’s so overwhelming so I do nothing. Don’t know where to begin. I think I need outside help.
Jenn Lifford says
I know it can be hard but you just need to start with one project at a time. I would take on an easier room first to give yourself some motivation. And, yes, if it is just too overwhelming there are definitely professional organizers out there that can help you!
NJ mom of 2 says
Get the help.,I did it a year ago and have been able to keep it up over a year later. You’ll be so much happier.
Jenn Lifford says
Good job keeping it up!
Dianne says
I am right here with you! My cluttered home makes me tired…there is no where that is tidy and like you, it is only my husband and myself. I just don’t know where to start and have trouble getting motivated. I work nights and so am behind the sleep eight ball for sleep/energy as well as having fibromyalgia which sucks me dry! I wish an organizing fairy would just come and sort my house out for me. I have lots of ideas but just cannot get the steam to go forward with any of them!
Elle Cherie says
Wow, I love this – I am definitely someone who buys things for ‘my future self’. This is such great tips to get motivated to de-clutter – thanks for sharing!
Jenn Lifford says
I used to do that one so much and I would always feel guilty when I didn’t use them!
Ellen Ross says
I LOVE this post and these tips. I’ve already shared with my facebook friends!
XO Ellen from Ask Away
Jenn Lifford says
Thanks so much Ellen!
Life Breath Present says
These tips make perfect sense to me! I think I do some of this without actually thinking too much about it…at least when it comes to the kitchen and maybe even the living room. The bedroom/closet is another issue altogether. I’m slowly working on cleaning that up, mostly right now by thinking of how to go about it before jumping right in. Nonetheless, I can see that many of these just might work there, too 🙂
Jenn Lifford says
Funny how some areas are just so much easier than others! 😉
Jamie @ Medium Sized Family says
I love the 20% rule! I used to think that I wanted to get organized (love pictures of beautifully organized rooms!). Then I realized that I really just want to simplify instead. Love this!
Robin says
Thank you for the ideas in your post! For so long my wife and I declutter only to be full up again 6-12 months later…then it takes us another 6-12 months to get fed up with it enough to do something about it.
I think if we can put your tips into practice it might stop us yo-yo decluttering. Permanent donation box is already installed (and it’s been full once) I think a lot of local charities will be benefiting.
Lisa Sharp says
Great tips! I really like keeping a donation box at all times. I try to always do that.
Jenn Lifford says
It’s funny how those little things can make such a difference!
gigi says
I absolutely love your tip about 20% free space! So happy I just ordered 2 new bathroom cabinets!!! I was thinking,…well, I’ll just keep cramming stuff in what I have,…but finally gave in and ordered 2 new cabinets, one for me and one for my husband. I can’t wait to have 20% free space!!!
Jenn Lifford says
It really makes it so much easier to keep things organized. And it’s always nice to have your own space! 😉
Alayna says
Great tips. I’m a firm believer in the Everything Needs a Home. The biggest clutter areas in my home are always the flat spaces near the door where everyone sets things down as they walk in because they don’t know where to put it (or are too lazy to put it away right then).
I am co-hosting the #HomeMattersParty link party this month and would love to have you stop by for a visit. The door is open now through Monday night. http://alaynascreations.co/2015/09/18/home-matters-linky-party-55/
Jenn Lifford says
Yes, that is such a big clutter area! For me, it is more a matter of getting everyone in the habit of putting things where they go immediately. At most, it takes an extra 30 seconds! 🙂 Thanks so much for hosting!
Melissa @ Freeing Imperfections says
These are all actually extremely useful tips! A lot of these posts I see on Pinterest don’t offer much help sometimes.
I totally agree about not having a bunch of organization type things. I used to be bin crazy, but they’re not that practical after all. A permanent donation box is my favorite. I just took mine to Goodwill yesterday. I love getting rid of stuff! I really need to work on it but I’m getting there.
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Jenn Lifford says
Sorry for your experience! While I do have in-post ads on my page, there shouldn’t be any pop-up ads. If you’re on mobile, sometimes a slow loading speed can cause some of the ads to appear as pop-ups because they will “bump” the page if you’ve scrolled down faster than it loads. Otherwise, I’m not really sure where it would be coming from as I don’t have any pop-ups authorized and none appear for me when I view on mobile or desktop. Thanks so much for reading and your patience!